Steve's barking at the enablers of death

If a teenager throws a rock at a man with a gun and gets shot who's to blame?
If another teenagers throws a rock at the same man with a gun and he also gets shot, who's to blame?
If you encourage other to throw rocks at this man and they get shot at aren't you part of the problem?
Some will say no, the man has a gun and that's much more deadlier then a rock.
Look at the agony of those who got shot, and oh by the way the man with the gun shot some teenagers who weren't throwing rocks at him.
I'm trying to understand, a thrown rock can injure and even kill but just because a person defends himself with a gun that person with is wrong.
Even though it is known that by throwing a rock at the man with a gun, the man is going to use it and fire on the person who throws the rock, if you don't expect injuries from the gun your a fool.

The way I see the battle in the holy land, the brothers and sisters of the Arabs that are being killed are blaming the wrong party, they should be cursing the rock throwers.That goes double for our holier then thou westerner's.